Working and eating out

Sep 5 2008 1:00 PM7 commentsAdd comment

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My personal trainer and I have broken up. It was actually his suggestion: I expressed some dissatisfaction with the progress I've been making, and he said I might find some sessions with a nutritionist more helpful than further workouts with him. So I've scheduled four appointments with Sam the Nutritionist, and after that I'll get to keep that $250 a month. Which will be VERY NICE.

Workouts this week seemed particularly difficult. My class had a substitute trainer on Wednesday, and he really got into arm muscles while we did our cardio on the treadmill. Then on Thursday, my final session with Jason featured arm work, too, leaving my biceps and shoulders and triceps at a level of sore I've not previously achieved. And in my class this morning we used a new kind of elliptical trainer that kicked. my. ass, so my thigh muscles aren't happy with me, either.

All told, I am TI.RED. and seriously looking forward to the weekend.

Anyway, the exercise front seems to be working out well. Now I have to tackle the food and eating part of healthy living. Here's why.

So far this week, I've consumed:

  • at least 120 ounces of Coke
  • around 3 dozen fries
  • 2 large cookies
  • 1 piece of chocolate grocery-store cake with frosting
  • 5 glazed donut holes
  • a couple handfuls of chocolate-covered pretzels
  • 2 burrito bols

...yeah. Not good.

Of the above, more than half was consumed at work. I'll buy a cookie with my salad at Taste of Scandinavia, and I "treat" myself to a Coke every afternoon, something to make me feel better during a stupid day at a job I don't particularly like. And if a coworker shares a goodie with us (cake, donuts, candy), well, who am I to refuse?

Another problem is that neither Jesse and I enjoy preparing meals. Well, that's not quite true: It's that when we get home from work (and, for me, the gym), we're exhausted. We're hungry. We have to go to bed in a few hours. Until lately, it's been hot in the apartment, which doesn't help. It takes too much time and energy to put a meal together, then clean up afterwards, especially when we have other things we want to do. So we go out to eat a lot.

I just haven't yet gotten into the mindset of eating for results and a functioning body rather than for pleasure and habit. I eat sweets when they're available (and as if they're going to disappear tomorrow). I eat as a gift to my brain if I'm not feeling well — or as a celebration if I am feeling well. I eat when I'm bored, when I'm tired, when I'm unhappy. I eat because my brain wants it, not because my body needs it.

So. Some ideas for next week:
  • Come up with some kind of other non-food unhappiness-relieving treat: Look at art. Write a brief poem or letter or something. Design a quick website.
  • Stop bringing cash and my credit card to work. Just bring our joint credit card for emergencies.
  • Make a list of one-pot and/or casserole sorts of meals that I can make and refrigerate over the weekend. Then I can just come home and heat something up.
  • Start doing some of the dishwashing. It's easier to make something in a clean kitchen.
  • Um...sandwiches?

What's the best way you've found to get something together for dinner? How do you beat brain-based goodie cravings? Tips and suggestions are welcome.

Comments

AnnSep 9 2008 11:18 AM
Thanks, everybody!

Karen: Fruit desserts! Good idea.

Melanie: I think I'd rather ditch the soda entirely than move to diet. Really, once I stop bringing money to work, my soft drink consumption will drop by, like, 80%.

Amanda: Thanks! Will email you with comments soon. (Bug me if you don't hear from me by this weekend.)

Narya: Yes to the cooking on a Sunday thing. It's much easier for me to bring lunches if I can just grab a container from the fridge and go. Plus I like casseroles and that sort of thing. Good tips!
NaryaSep 8 2008 3:53 PM
Perhaps what I've done with lunches over the years might help: I reserve a Sunday (or Saturday, or whenever) and pick out at least two, and preferably three Big Recipes: stews, soups, lasagna, side dishes, whateverthehell. When I'm done, I portion them and freeze them in their own little containers. Thus, I (a) do a lot of cooking all at once, which concentrates the pain and reduces the sum total of it, IMHO (though I like to cook, so that's less of a deal for me), (b) make a few things that will last more than a week, so, after a week or two, I actually have several things from which to choose.

Keep in mind that some things—like rice—will last for awhile in the fridge, so you could make two or three things to go with the rice and alternate.

Another thing that helps: frozen (organic, in my case) veggies. That way I nearly always have veggies around, but they're not turning into a science project in the fridge. Canned beans and canned tomatos (I like Muir Glen organic chopped peeled tomatos, and their fire-roasted ones as well) are helpful. There are also some boxed mixes by Seeds of Change that are pretty good.

I could go on, but I fear that I've already done too much of that on this subject . . .
KarenSep 8 2008 3:51 PM
PS Please do share any good tips from Sam the Nutritionist!
AmandaWeb siteSep 8 2008 7:43 AM
you mention designing a quick website. I have a client: mysouldatwork.com that's not terrible happy with the design I came up with. He husband gave her the advice that it's too young (he's 70, she's 40...and she wants to attract a younger crowd). I'd love to hear your feedback.
MelanieWeb siteSep 6 2008 10:12 PM
Hey, have you thought of switching to diet cola? I love my diet soda.

And don't feel bad about outsourcing meal prep and clean up. We do that a lot, too. The important thing, and something I'm definitely struggling with, is making healthier choices at restaurants. Burger vs. salad? I have a hard time choosing salad. Lately I've been trying to substitute chicken for beef and grilled for fried. At least it's something...

Good luck!
KarenSep 5 2008 6:02 PM
Yes! It will!

I know what you mean, Ann: There are so many reasons to eat. Lately I've been trying a sort of litmus test (with mixed results). I ask myself, "Hey, are you really hungry?" If not—tea!

Also, I highly recommend fruit desserts. I enjoy poaching a pear in wine; baking an apple with cinnamon, chopped walnuts, 1/2 tsp butter, and a sprinkle of sugar in the core; roasting a plum and serving with Greek yogurt, honey, and toasted nuts; rolling a peeled peach in a mixture of apricot preserves, brandy, and lemon juice. I've recently discovered a whole new world of satisfying, easy, impressive fruit desserts.

And finally! I see cooking as my creative outlet, so I love love love it.
KarenSep 5 2008 5:57 PM
Will my comment work on this page?

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